Skip the same-URI refresh instead of throwing on a mismatched onPost - #220

Closes #219.

#214 bound CommandInterceptor to onPost, so RefreshSameCommand's automatic same-URI refresh now runs MatchQuery against every write's own URI query - including a create whose parameters do not cover onGet's required ones (a collection onPost with no id yet). MatchQuery's UnmatchedQuery propagated uncaught through CommandInterceptor's try/finally (no catch), turning a request that used to reach onPost with no interceptor at all into a hard failure - and because CommandsProvider orders RefreshSameCommand before RefreshAnnotatedCommand, an explicit #[Refresh]/#[Purge] on the same method never ran either. #214 turned "the attribute is silently dropped" (#212) into "the attribute is silently dropped and the write 500s".

The identical bug existed on the donut command path: DonutCommandInterceptor::refreshDonutAndState() called MatchQuery with no catch either, inside an invoke() whose try is finally-only, and DonutCacheModule binds this interceptor to onPost too - so a #[CacheableResponse]/#[DonutCache] collection onPost with the same shape 500ed as well.

Both interceptors now catch UnmatchedQuery, scoped to onPost-prefixed methods (str_starts_with, matching the AOP matcher's own startsWith semantics - the same prefix-matched names like onPostItem the matcher intercepts): the write already succeeded, there is no entry to refresh, and the skip is recorded as cache_error{operation: write} rather than vanishing silently. RefreshSameCommand returning instead of throwing also lets CommandsProvider's next command run, so an explicit #[Refresh]/#[Purge] on the same onPost still fires.

onPut/onPatch/onDelete keep throwing on both interceptors: those act on an entity onGet already addresses, so a required parameter missing there is a real signature mismatch, not this case - BehaviorTest::testUnMatchQuery (value-cache side) pins that, and DonutUnmatchedQueryRefreshTest::testPutStillThrowsForAGenuineMismatch pins the same contract on the donut side.

Verification

• New fixtures MismatchedWriter (value-cache, onGet(int $id) / onPost(string $title)) and MismatchedDonutWriter (#[CacheableResponse], same shape plus an onPut twin for the still-throws case), with tests/UnmatchedQueryRefreshTest.php and tests/DonutUnmatchedQueryRefreshTest.php: the onPost write still succeeds (no throw) and is logged as cache_error; an explicit #[Purge] on the same onPost still runs (value-cache side); onPut with a genuine mismatch still throws UnmatchedQuery on both interceptors.
• Confirmed both new test files fail pre-fix with exactly the reported UnmatchedQuery propagating uncaught (reverted each source file locally via git stash, re-ran, reverted back).
• BehaviorTest::testUnMatchQuery (the pre-existing onPut case) passes unmodified.
• 100% line coverage on both changed interceptors; full suite (394 tests), cs, phpstan, psalm all clean; full CI matrix (PHP 8.2-8.5, 3 OSes) and codecov green.

Also: both interceptors' docblocks said onPut/onPatch/onDelete only, stale since #214 added onPost.